Welcoming new members into the faith family
Opinion
Welcoming a new member into the family – whether it is a newborn baby, a newly adopted child, or someone joining through marriage – brings a mix of joy, hope and sometimes apprehension. This addition changes the dynamics of our family life, and we open our hearts, eager to share love, traditions and daily experiences, hoping the new member will fit in and embrace us.
Similarly, as members of the Catholic Church, we have a duty to welcome those on the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) journey into our faith community with open hearts and enthusiasm. Viewing RCIA as merely a program misses the point; it is about each one of us recognising that through our baptism we are called to spread the good news by word and example in our role as brothers and sisters in Christ.
Just as a child requires patience and understanding as they learn to navigate their new world, those on the RCIA journey also need our support. They come with questions, perhaps anxiety, and a deep desire to know more about the Catholic faith. As compassionate teachers, we guide them through the teachings of the Church, respecting their individual pace and background. We must embody Christ to them so they can be Christ to others.
Our Catholic faith has unique traditions and values passed down through generations. It is our responsibility to share these with participants in the RCIA process. Introducing them to the beauty of the Mass, the sacraments and the liturgical seasons helps them feel connected to the larger body of the Church. By sharing our faith traditions, we provide them with a spiritual foundation and a sense of belonging.
Hospitality is key. We should include catechumens and candidates in church social events, inviting them to be part of various parish activities. Building relationships and ensuring they feel like family from the beginning is essential.
Supporting new family members through challenges with love and encouragement is crucial. Similarly, we should support those on the RCIA journey through prayer and positive reinforcement. Encouraging their progress and celebrating milestones fosters a sense of accomplishment and belonging.
The culmination of the RCIA journey is the celebration of the sacraments of initiation: Baptism, Confirmation, and Eucharist. Just as we celebrate significant milestones in a family member’s life, this is a time for the entire community to come together in joy and thanksgiving, fully welcoming the new member into the Church. These moments remind us of the unity and continuity of our faith, strengthened by the addition of new members.
And just as with a new bride or groom, we do not “drop” them after the wedding. We continue to coach and support our neophytes on their journey to God. Recognising RCIA as a process of welcoming new members enriches their faith journey and strengthens the bonds of our faith community.
Let us always strive to be a welcoming and nurturing Church family, ready to grow together in the love of Christ.
– Orla Wright, pastoral support, Community Life and Worship
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